The one

Is it a lot harder for a westerner to find the one true calling and the one true love than an Indian? Seems like it. Of course, this is mostly due to the lack of choice in these "areas" in India. Hence, is it fair to say that the most efficient way to restrict yourself a single path in life is to be unaware of the others? Furthermore, given you are aware of this quandary as I think I am now, is it but a cruel twist to the blissful ignorance credo, or am I- as part of one of the most practical minded survivalist clique in the world, the Indian middle class, just plain lucky?